There are seasons when life doesn’t gently suggest change — it demands it. Maybe you’ve felt it too: that unmistakable realization that you’ve been moving nonstop, accomplishing things, checking boxes, meeting expectations, but not necessarily moving toward the life you actually want. That was the reality I found myself in a few years ago.
On the outside, I looked productive and capable, but internally I felt misaligned. I wasn’t living with intention; I was simply managing what was in front of me. Somewhere in that season, I picked up The Alchemist again — a book I had read before but wasn’t ready to understand. This time, the lessons landed in a way that felt direct and relevant. They challenged the way I was thinking about my time, my energy, my goals, and the kind of life I wanted to build. Over time, those lessons became part of the foundation of Lark & Legacy. Not by design at first, but because they shaped the way I approached planning, creativity, and daily living.
Here are the 10 lessons that changed everything for me — in my life, my work, and the way I design the tools we create.
1. Fear shows up strongest when you're right on the edge of something meaningful
Fear kept me in a long season of “almost.” I almost started. I almost tried. I almost gave myself permission to want more. I waited to feel “ready,” not realizing that readiness comes after you move, not before. The moment I took action — even with doubts still lingering — everything shifted. Momentum formed. Opportunities showed up. The path became clearer. If something scares you, there’s a good chance it’s important.
2. What’s rooted in truth remains steady
I’ve lived through countless trends and shifting expectations, and the one thing that never loses strength is clarity. When I started Lark & Legacy, the intention was simple: create meaningful tools that support intentional living, not pressure-driven productivity. That clarity has guided every decision since. Trends fade; truth stays solid.
3. Real change comes from the moments we give meaning to
I used to think transformation required huge effort, but most of the growth in my life has come from small shifts. Lighting a candle before diving into work. Choosing to set intentions instead of getting swept into the day. Writing things down instead of letting thoughts sit in my mind. These everyday rituals recalibrated me in ways I didn’t expect. They grounded me and reminded me that life is happening now, not later.
4. Presence creates direction
Busyness used to be my default. My mind was constantly racing ahead or recycling past stress, and presence felt like a luxury I never had time for. But when I finally started paying attention to where I was — not where I should be — everything became clearer: what I wanted, what wasn’t working, and what needed to change. Presence isn’t stillness; it’s awareness. And awareness is what puts you back in the driver’s seat of your life.
5. When you grow, everything around you shifts with you
One thing I didn’t expect was how much my inner growth would reshape my outer world. My priorities changed, my conversations deepened, and the opportunities that aligned with me became more meaningful. Growth influences your environment in ways you don’t always notice at first. When you evolve, your life adjusts to meet you.
6. Planning prepares you, but decisions move you forward
I love planning — it’s who I am. But I had to learn that plans can only take you so far. You can outline a vision endlessly, but nothing changes until a decision is made. The moment I fully committed to building Lark & Legacy — not halfway, not “if everything works out,” but truly committed — things started happening. Planning is valuable, but decisions create momentum.
7. Your dreams don't need to make sense to anyone else
Some of the most meaningful ideas I’ve had didn’t look “reasonable” from the outside. They were too ambitious, too specific, or simply too different. But alignment often doesn’t follow logic. Sometimes you feel pulled toward something because it’s meant for you, not because it’s easily explained. You're allowed to want more and build something bigger than what others can envision.
8. Failure is feedback, not a dead end
Not everything I created worked out the first time. Some things flopped entirely. But failure wasn’t a sign to stop — it was information. It helped me refine ideas, strengthen my process, and understand what aligned with my values. Failure taught me far more than success ever did, and I learned to treat it as part of the path, not a disruption to it.
9. Your path is meant to look different
Comparison used to pull me out of alignment constantly. It made me feel behind, or off-track, or like I needed to match someone else’s pace. But the truth is: your path is supposed to look different. Your pace, your timing, your direction — they’re shaped by your story, not anyone else’s. Alignment matters far more than speed.
10. Insight is valuable, but action is what transforms your life
I’ve always been someone who reflects deeply, thinks thoughtfully, and plans intentionally. But none of that created change until I started acting on it. Action doesn’t have to be dramatic — it just has to be consistent. You learn by doing. You grow by moving. You reshape your life through small, steady steps that reflect who you want to become.
A Closing Thought
If you’re in a season where something feels like it’s shifting — or you’re craving clarity, purpose, or a different kind of rhythm — I hope these lessons remind you that you’re not behind. You’re not starting over. You’re evolving. You’re recognizing what no longer fits and stepping toward something more aligned. Every intentional choice you make becomes part of your story. Every step forward, even the small ones, builds your legacy. And you get to decide what the next chapter looks like.